Be my Valentine? Just Kidding...

Exactly one week ago from today, we celebrated Valentine's Day. Cute, right? Eh, it's whatever. Let me tell ya, this Valentine's Day was unlike any other that I've experienced before. Of course, your supposed to let the one you love know you love them all the time...but Valentine's Day gives you twenty-four hours to make everything about eachother. I mean that's what your SUPPOSED to do right? Well...a week ago today, it seems that the meaning of this wonderful holiday somehow got switched around to be the exact opposite. EVERYBODY WAS BREAKING UP! Why would anybody want to wait until the "Love" holiday to officially DUMP their boyfriend/girlfriend? Is it humorous? Are was it done out of just plain cruelty? I don't even know. But what I do know is this...
When your with somebody, your not with anybody else. If you spend each day worrying about what your significant other is doing, that probably means you shouldn't be with them. Any form of relationship, especially this kind, is all based on trust. Let's say you have a past with somebody but your willing to give them another shot, but you spend every waking minute wondering if that relationship is gonna end the same exact way it did the last two...or three...or possibly even four times. Is it even worth it then? If all you can do is wonder, instead of simply knowing? Maybe in your head, you know your not in a healthy relationship.
 But then maybe its one of those situations where your heart is telling you the exact opposite; it makes you not care. Want my advice? Of course you do...that's why your still reading this. Well here it is...remove all forms of contact that you may have with this person. Delete them off your friends list on Facebook, remove them from your phone contacts, start talking to somebody else. When you sit there and dwell on the person 24/7, of course that's gonna be all you think about. You have to get back out there, you have to MAKE yourself move on, make yourself forget about them. What's gonna happen if you don't? Well...you'll probably end up with them having a restraining order against you if your not already put in a psych ward for obsessing. Especially if your in high school...you don't need to be wasting all of your younger years on one person. So do me a favor if your not gonna do it for yourself, FORGET THEMMM!!! Seriously...you probably don't even understand how much happier you'll be afterwards.

Your Best Friend,
-J.Lew